There are moments in life when human behavior becomes difficult to understand. I have never been someone who seeks to exploit others, yet I have often found myself on the receiving end of people taking advantage of my silence or kindness. When I finally choose to speak up and defend myself, it is sometimes misinterpreted as hostility or “bullying,” particularly by former partners or friends. That characterization is inaccurate.
I do not enjoy conflict, nor do I take pleasure in being unkind. However, there comes a point when one must address the truth directly and establish firm boundaries. If someone chooses to disclose my personal information or misrepresent me, I have every right to clarify the facts and protect my integrity. That is not wrongdoing – it is self-respect.
Ultimately, I am not seeking confrontation. In an Ideal world, it would be preferable for everyone to remain on good terms. At my core, I am a lover, not a fighter. Still, when peace is not possible, I simply prefer to be left in peace and to move forward without unnecessary interference. I trust that this is understood.
With light and wisdom,
Jennifer Nicole Nelson, Principal Designer
