I’ve made this mistake too many times — choosing men for their good qualities. It never works. I’ve met men I was attracted to who treated me poorly, and men I wasn’t attracted to who treated me poorly. Either way, I ended up unhappy. From now on, attraction is non-negotiable. I need attraction, desire, and that spark, and I haven’t felt it in years. It has been nonexistent, and I’m done pretending otherwise.
I’m done settling. No more forcing connections. No more ignoring chemistry.
I hope this helps.
Healing, always,
Jennifer Nicole Nelson, Principal Designer
