My heart transformed the day I finally accepted there was nothing more I could do. I let go. People judged me, but they never saw the years I spent surviving the chaos of his addiction. To heal myself — and to protect what was precious in me — I had to release what I once believed was love.
I shared the links, but the reality is that not much has changed since I finally let go. Real love means choosing treatment and real help — not expecting someone to stand beside you while you destroy yourself. It’s painful to watch the same chaotic patterns repeat year after year. It breaks something in you, even from a distance. Letting go wasn’t abandonment; it was survival. It was the only way to protect my heart and reclaim what was precious to me.
https://publicaccess.courts.state.mn.us/CaseSearch :Todd Singleton Downing
“In 2006, former Tennessee Titans offensive coordinator Todd Downing was arrested by the Eden Prairie Police Department in Minnesota, where he was cited for fourth-degree driving while intoxicated and careless driving. The misdemeanor DWI charge from that 2006 incident was later dismissed.”
Key Details Regarding 2006 Incident:
- Location: Eden Prairie, Minnesota.
- Charges: Fourth-degree DWI and careless driving.
- Outcome: The DWI charge was dismissed. =
Note: This 2006 incident is separate from his November 2022 arrest for DUI and speeding in Tennessee, which occurred following a Titans victory.
https://www.nfl.com/news/titans-oc-todd-downing-arrested-for-dui-after-win-over-packers
https://www.espn.com/nfl/story/_/id/35565584/ex-titans-oc-todd-downing-begins-sentence-dui-arrest
I Choose Me.
Sincerely,
Jennifer Nicole Nelson, Principal Designer
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